You Will Fail Before You Succeed Failure is the pre requisite for success. It would be a difficult task to name a few people whose first attempt at anything was a wide glorious success.
- Michael Jordan didn’t start off being able to slam dunk a basketball let alone make his high school varsity team.
- I’m sure tiger wood’s first shot was not a hole in one.
For anyone into video games, when u start at level one, how long do you last before your character gets destroyed by a rival? Usually not too long, then you get better as you learn the game.
Why do we often fail? BECAUSE WE ARE SUPPOSED TO.
It’s normal. I wouldn’t expect anyone who drives a car for the first time, to possess the skill of a Nascar driver. That principle applies to any task/profession you can think of.
How We Currently Perceive Failure.
Failure has a negative connotation but it is actually the best thing we can experience, especially while you are young. When you think about failure, you probably think about storm clouds, defeat, and a feeling of inadequacy. Those emotions are okay to experience because they are temporary! However, in order to accept failure, we need to change the way it is perceived.
Failure doesn’t mean you lose, that you can never be great at anything. What it means is that you have eliminated a possibility. You are now one step closer to finding the answer. There are many ways to skin a cat and by failing, we eliminate one of those possibilities. So failure is actually an exciting thing because guess what? WERE CLOSER TO THE CORRECT ANSWER.
If there was a map with a circle that represented your starting point and an “x” identifying the destination. All of the space in between represents failure. Failure is what you must do In order to learn the correct way. In order to reach a finish line.
So without this “failure” we never learn. You can read about someone’s success and you might hear a great story but what will you learn? Now if you read an individual’s tale about failure, I can guarantee there will be a lesson to be absorbed.
Reacting To Failure
But There is more to failure than the act itself. More important than failure is HOW WE REACT TO IT. After you fall, (because you will at some point) will you stay down? Will you blame your environment or your circumstances for your position or will you own your failure, absorb all that it has to teach you and get back up to try again?
Too often people let their failures create a fear of failing again and again. It is often this fear that holds us back. Instead of fearing the same mistakes, recognize where they were made and how they helped you (or can help you) achieve what it is your seeking out to do, the correct way.
Don’t let failure hold you back, use failure to pave your way to success because each time you fail, by the process of elimination, you narrow down the possibilities of selecting a correct answer and get that much closer to success.